Hello!

   

   Hello to all my readers out there in reader land!  Where ever that might be for you today.  I hope you find this blog both interesting and funny-for a change.  :)   I find more joy every time I look at all of the views each of my pages receives.  Especially this page-- because it is mainly just me venting, talking about coffee, showing my pictures off, and letting my mind randomly ramble along.   But as is the picture taking--- mostly the Exploring while I am taking pictures, and the actual typing of these posts---each is very stress relieving for me.  Plus I can usually vent on here, and not find the need to vent nearly as much to my wife.  I am very very -close to having a vehicle again, so the picture taking and Exploring should go way up.  Also the posting these blogs from coffee shops and my Exploring blog posts of course will be more frequent.   Speaking of that    Please check out my local Exploring page---slowly taking us all across amazing Arizona     

                                                                                           

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                

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**"Say what u must about what this says about me but arguing and venting and yelling and proving people wrong is a stress reliever for me. The landlords let me relieve stress today. Another example is any server that claims they are THE sh*t. I never claim to be a good server nor do I see it as something to brag about. But if you claim to be great in front of me. And several have in the past. I will daily ask you to prove your greatness before I become great at proving you wrong, daily :) "**---With my local gripe page out of commission, by me-- and my manager training classes, and easily annoyed co workers--and to continue to make my amazing marriage work, I have been trying to be much betterer about seeing every ones point of views, and not just going off on people.   Trying is the key word.   Because with out some soap box speeches from me--I just would not be me---and I would not have nearly as many things to post about on this very page.  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               


                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             

      

**"I enjoy telling the day line cooks, whom think I am insane anyway, that before work I take an upper and a downer and let them battle it out at work!  :)"**---Editors note:    I seldom work with the day crew --and they are far from used to my random yelling --nor do they seem to like it much.  This makes me to it more.  The night crew is far more layed back and far more used to the yelling--which at night is followed by laughter and or echos of whatever I might be yelling.     Anyways-speaking of drugs, tonight is a big concert night at work.  A sold out concert.  Snoop Dog happens to be the performer--and last year he canceled at the last minute--so this one sold out pretty fast.  My wife and I were planning on attending the concert-but something came up, and I begged to be put back on the work schedule for that big tip $.  Fo Shizzle!  We kind of assumed if we went to the concert it would be a late night and we would have a contact high--just from the crowd.   So at one point I also asked for the following day off work.   My main hope is that the managers do not panic and put to many servers on the floor-so that none of us really make any tip $.  It seems to me with my shift at work, they may not really train anyone --and than just put more of us on the floor to make up for the lack of training.  This also takes tips away from all of us mainly.  And may or may not be that fair for those of us that might actually know what we are doing --sometimes.  



**"I would like to have a stalker but think I would stalk my stalker. I also think any stalker of mine would soon die of boredom. That said I am about to head back to work. Wooooo!"**
                                                                   

                                                                                   That said---they won't let me wear my helmet to work                                                                                                                                                                                                                    
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           
                                                                                                 True story!!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                
                                                                             Wait---what!??                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              So you might have noticed that this post still does not talk about Mothers Day---soon!  Next post I wish to talk and ponder about cell phones and such.  Next Exploring post--when things slow down a lil bit--HA!--Will be from beautiful down town Tucson, Arizona again.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     And now for your moment of Zen----I need this button on my computer......                                                                                                                                                                                                   

           

5/24/2016--Still Waiting

         Good morning to everyone, except Donald Trump!   Just jokin'   I happen to like most of the things and ideas he has.  And with my combined train of thought and back ground of annoying people just because I can-- the more people that dislike him-the more I tend to like him.  Yes his thoughts and ideas seem to come out in a joubled mess, but the base of him plans are solid.  Like me, he seems to be as surprised at what actually comes out of his mouth--or is it his wild hair that does all the talking, as we and or the media are.  Yes he has a lot of failed business, but what true all star does not, and he also has a ton of successful business now to make up for all the failures.  Yes at first I just thought he was hilarious--and yes I know whom ever goes into office will not really be allowed to change things because of the powers that be over him -that really make this country's plans.  But in my eyes Hillary really is the anti Christ!!   But it really is to early to talk about such things--heck I am still trying to finish my morning coffee before it gets to warm outside to enjoy coffee.  If there even is such a temperature!  And I try to keep politics out of this page --knowing fully well that so many other topics and thoughts running through my head annoy much more!  :)
      So I am sitting here waiting for my apartment land lords to walk through my apartment.  Angry because I have things to do, and because while I was cleaning I lost things--like my newest work schedule.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             

**I hope the apartment managers realize the longer it takes them to show the more defense and argumentative I gets**---- I was told the walk through would be around 9-10 when I asked for a boarder time line than the all day one I was first given.  Of course it's after ten.   At this point I am just thinking of all of the things wrong with the apartment complex and how I can bring them up while they look at my spotless pad.  Actually I most want to take a dump in the bathroom before they show up  and than see how long I can keep them in the small apartment.  :)   Again much more on this coming of course.  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 


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**"Love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person. To love somebody isn't just a strong feeling. It is a decision, a judgment and a promise."**----Not really going any where with this quote, just found it the other day and thought it was great.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    


                                                            

**"Can not tell if my headache is coming on because I need more coffee or have had to much. I will just blame the headache on it about being time to start work."**                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        **"Did not the month of May not just start?? Fastest most non productive year ever so far. "**                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          




**"Once I get a car again and have no reason to call them I am doing a long mini vent about Yellow Cab. Cliff notes there service blows."**----And than one fully about the apartments I live in.   Still waiting for them to walk my apartment.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            


                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         Still waiting.  I realize as you are reading this you have no idea of the passage of time here--but since I am multi tasking--rather poorly   this has takin' awhile to type.  I will miss my class and be late for work if need be--to make sure I am here when they walk through---but the more wait  the more annoyed I gets.  If you have not yet noticed -this post is still not my special mother's day post.   Not saying my mom and probably your moms are not fully amazing, or that they do not deserve a full post just about there amazing-ness   just sayin' I am distracted and or slacking.  

Still Not My Mother's Day Post-Thanks For Playing!

            A great hello t y'all this early evening!  I am happy to say both the temperatures outside and my temperature is slowly lowering at the moment.  I had another run in with my apartment managers--and was quite stemmed after I left the office with few answers --and more basic insults than anything.  I have bringing more of my belongings up this way, many to attempt to sell online, many to cherish forever, or until someone sees them in a sale ad picture, and wishes to buy them.  And with work and classes and all--I have not really had a chance to go through them---I also might or might not have been collecting pop cans in my apartment--to recycle-perish the thought.  Anyways a few weeks the bug sprayer was in my apartment--pretending to spray.  I say pretending, because I still get big by something almost every single night.  And I made the mistake of mentioning that ants were coming in my apartment in droves--up the sink line in my tub.  Apparently this was my fault and he told the managers that my house was a complete mess and that I might be a hoarder.   They are doing a walk though of my place tomorrow because of this---should not take long, it's not a mess and I basically live in a box.  No really I live in a studio.  But there thoughts ticked me off---for one big note--I awake to trash ALLLLLL over this complex almost each and every day---yet if reported, the managers said they would file it under a health and safety threat--my apartment   really?  What is the constant mess of garbage floating around the complex---bringing in more bugs and worse, just inches away from my front door?  I did not realize I was endangering my wife's health every time she spent the night at my house.   I have not went through this kind of pure BS since we lived in housing in Washington state.  Sure it was cheap, but it was also fully government run, and fully insanely stupid.   Needless to say---the above is just a portion of the fun--and O I will make it fun for all now!   I wasted to much of today- a much needed day off work, cleaning.  Even though I was under the impression if one was paying rent for a space, when in there rent paying possession, they could do as they wished, for the most part--especially if no laws were being broke.  When y ou move out and stop paying rent, than you pay for any damages and such......   Guess I am not even good enough to live in the ghetto.  :)   Needless to say the notice from the managers, stated that I did not need to be around when they looked at my apartment hahahah!   They did say they would come through around ten AM tomorrow--so the longer past that it is, the more heated I will be.   But alas!  I am not yet in a position ---beyond mentally to move---and I have moved to much Dam stuff into my box, to move yet.    To be continued   for sure!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              I am sitting here watching the news, and realizing how depressing it is.  Even for all local news.  I almost never get to watch the news, and turns out have seen it several times on this fine day.   But after word --is The Simpsons!   So it will all be good very soon.  In the past we just had Netflix, and it takes some getting used to -to watch regular TV  mostly that regular TV has commercials.  I am playing cheap until I figure out what my bills are for sure, and if I am soon to be homeless--and do not have cable TV.  In fact I just have antennae viewing.  And some how I get about 20 stations, all though many of them are fully in Spanish.  Making it more interesting, here in the heart of the ghetto, I live under the main flight plan for the local airport.  Every time a plane goes over, it scrambles my viewing.  Some times so much, it is almost like trying to watch stolin' porn.   Not that I would have any idea what that is like.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          

                                                                          I am still getting used to commercials again, but for the most part they are all OK or a great reason to grab a snack or use the restroom.  One really really annoys me at the moment---and I must pause here to vent a lil about it.  But some back ground first.  Growing up --my mom constantly encouraged my writing, she still does--but from a distance now.  encouraged, but was very critical and basically was my spell and grammar checker.  My brother continues to do this for me, even on Facebook---annoyin'  but as he says,   words mean something.  I had an extra super strict English teacher in High School, who also had the misfortune to teach classes were we gave speeches.  In turn she also mostly gave up, and gave me passing grades for the most part.  Although it does not often show, I learned a lot from them all.   In the classes she taught doing perfect speeches, she hated two things to no end.  Jokes---something that lost me A LOT of points---because when I am nervous and have nothing to say--I crack jokes.   And she also hatted fillers----things like "ummmm" and "weeeeeell"  and "sh*t"  when you forget what you are about to say and are searching for real words. In fact she would count them out for us as we were stuttering through our speech-usually unaware of the 25 fillers. 
       There is a promotional commercial for an IT school that makes me cringe every time it comes on, because the lady student telling us how smart she is and how her friends all look up to her now, uses a TON of fillers.  In fact she starts the commercial with a long "ummmm!"  And there are a lot of fillers.  Could they not edit them out, or did she use so many fillers -that this is the cut version?  And should I be b*tching about fillers by using the word filler so many times??  I'm sorry--but all of those fillers don't ummm make me want to ummmm hand over my whaaaaat do you ummmmmm call it money to anyone that teaches there or things that this commercial is an ummmm good idea.    Just sayin'
     

                                                                                                                                True story!!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             

                                                                                                               At least he looks happy about having no ring       on and no house behind him                                                                                                                                                                                         

                                                                                                                        I found this one extremely amusing for some reason.  :)                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             

                                                                                                                            But I answered anyway!---Steven                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         

                                                                                                                  More on the above very soon-----

Cliff notes---this is another distraction you twitty sheeple!!

One In A $Miliion

  **"I have a million dollar idea   that I will send to the first million people that send me one dollar....!" 

           **"I wonder if Satan gets a lot of letters for Santa around Christmas time?"**

Class of "97" be aware, most people my age are so much older than me.
                                                                                                                                                                          

Love is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person. To love somebody isn't just a strong feeling. It is a decision, a judgment and a promise.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      

Did not the month of May not just start?? Fastest most non productive year ever so far.                                                                                                                                                                                                        


                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   

                                                                 

             Hello all this early morning!   It seems to be my daze off,and even after to many hours of not sleeping last night and a very hot and draining day, I can not find sleep just yet.  So a blog post or three for y'all to enjoy!  Or for me to look back on at later dates, and enjoy myself.  Whatever comes first.  I hope to post my now quite late mother's day post next.  But not today.  I also hope to have enough energy to post in my Exploring Arizona page today also.  
                                                                                             

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Another day off sitting around with my thumbs up my ass. Not because I'm to good to take the bus but because I'm to easily annoyed right now to take the bus. If I had not guzzled so much coffee id go back to bed         ----Still not really close to being fully mobile.  But am getting closer to it for sure!  Finally.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              


So awhile back I actually had a customer ask me the difference between our fish platter and our shrimp platter. I had to do a triple take to see if they were joking. They were full serious so I attempted to be gentle. Ummm one has fish and chips and the other has shrimp and chips..... all the while I was thinking , and if our fish and shrimp have sex THATS how our onion rings are born!!----Yesterday I believe it was was national waiter day.  No prize at work, no extra great tips, I jut got to keep my job and continue to gain great tips for the most part.  I recently found a page on Facebook were people who are servers can vent about there customers, and lots of jokes appear.  It is amazing how accurate the jokes are--and how few people on the sight are actually mean about there customers, they are just venting.  It often also amazes me, how everyone that shares, is from different areas but still I have shared many of there sames hardships and gripes many a time.  Above is an actual story of mine, one of the tamer ones    but most amusing to me at least.  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                             


                                                                                            

Have I mentioned lately how much I hate these apartments?? So I just got a notice saying management is going to inspect my place in the next 48 hours. Inspect for what?? The notice also says I dont have to be home when they arrive. Hahaha! O I will be here!!------best yet --not 20 minutes later I went to the managers office to ask about the notice----and no one --again knew anything.  In fact at one point they even asked me why I had recived the notice... Hello   that is why I am standing here -yelling   holding up the notice.  They have no reason to search my place   and implying at all that I did not need to be around when they wen though  HA!   Hell I well take the day off work and hide in the closet to make sure I am here when they come through.  Or pay my beer loving mother in law in beer to sit on my couch and drink while they walk the apartment.  Reason number 212 I am more than ready to move.  Luckily my wife is about at the same point and we are talking about a joined house again very soon.  Although money does not really allow at the moment.  Very soon again though.   :)                                                                                                                                                                                                                         


  

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        write that down                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            
                                                                                         true story                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          
                                                                                                                                                                                                                            
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 too soon??                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         And now your moment of Zen.....